From tonywiltshire's post, I can only deduce [by subtraction of other attempted helpers and friends, like me] he refers to some of my comments as "personally offensive". If so, and tony's probably right, I apologise to Scaff01 and all. Not meant in any hostlie way but at times sometimes we ALL need shaking out of traumatic shock back into the cruel of world reality.
I sometimes wonder whether this is a a deliberate cryptic puzzle. If it is, I am hooked (lol), notably by Scaff's many-times reticence to answer colleagues simple questions. To add to my confusion was Scaff's innocent grammatical error [my specialism as well] in the sentence : " Yes I am the company has gone into liquidation.....". Very late I realise that "Yes I am" is an answer to Infomaniac's question: "So are you being asked to pay the company's debts". Unfortunately this is not separated from the rest with a stop - thus implying Scaff was the company or rather "his".
So correct me if I'm wrong anyone, on SPECIFIC FACTS and not nitpicking sniping at spelling etc. The situation is that Scaff's wife is a sole trader and Scaff's role, if any, in the company is not yet determined i.e. as executive, non-executive director, consultant, accountant etc. The house belongs to him but the company's base may or may not be at that house. Scaff's wife, despite owning the company, has not elucidated him on his legal/financial situation. Sorry Scaff and ABers but there is more to come from me below, after my parting to words to Scaff (for now): "It's better to be questionned by friends like us and your lawyer than aggressively CROSS-questionned in a Court of Law where you may then innocently fold".