Charged With Abh

[moonbiter]

i fell in love with a girl at work and now we have a kid together, our relationship has gotten progressivelly worse and i'm sure u know where i'm going with this. i'm the male in this relationship. i work nights and come home around 3-6am and if i'm not discreet or just sheer luck the baby wakes up which wakes her up she gets agitated by this and has a go at me and shoves me or slaps me, u get the point. this has been going on for around a year and i don't have the money to get myself a room as i'm the one paying £1200+bills - one lodger at £500 for double room. i have try to explaine to her to leave me alone and let me save up enough money to move. our relationship is disfunctional and she gets sex when she wants/feels horny.. or we have a civil conversation when she feels like it. i have progressively been getting tiered on this bs and one day at around 1am she texts me and asks that i buy some baby food if i get a chance if not perhaps tmw day time so i ofc forget. the next day when i wake up around 1 pm starts going on about how hard is it to remember to buy food, i go to asda to buy the food and while in store i get texts about how i should get the hell out and photos of some of my stuff out in the rain. i have enough and call police at around 3pm and ofc the arive 3 hours later when i'm at work asking what the problem is, i'm so frastrated that it took so long for the police to come and the gf having *** me off earlier, i put the phone down on the policewoman that just called. gf is very *** that i called police and thinks i'm trying to get her into trouble and take the baby away (she is latvian and paranoid because her ex gets to keep the first son back there). she calls and texts agressive things, i finish work early ( around 9pm) and go home to try and explaine. i come home and she don't let me explaine and starts shoving me around (i'm 68kg she is 90) i say to stop shoving me she continues, it gets to much for me and i punch her in the shoulders, left and right she gets even more agresssive and throws me around by cloths and i punch her again and again she throws me around, u get the point, the police come and arrest me and now i'm charged with ABH.

we are not allowed to make contact but she sends me texts and says she is sorry she didn't mean to get me into such srs trouble.....

i keep contact with her because she is an idiot and has no idea how to survive and comes to me asking What The Funicular is council tax how to pay and which bills to pay, how to get health care and u get the point.

so yeah... *** up my perfect past because this idiot.

any help is appreciated

[mightymouse]

Crikey!

[EDDIE51]

Calling the police because you have had an argument with your partner!. Now charged with ABH because of another row! You are an idiot!
You have a child to consider. The child needs parents who can provide role models, you are not doing that at the moment. Sorry, but you need to grow up and learn to live in the real world! Get a day time job so you two can look after your child together!

[Baldric]

Moonbiters profile says Female so I'm staying away from this.

[EDDIE51]

Male / female makes no difference my advice remains the same !

[hammerman]

You are spot on Eddie

[TonyV]

Eddie think this poster is not real

[jennyjoan]

I don't think it is genuine either. Didn't from the start hence I why I didn't reply.

[TonyV]

Lol Jenny not quite right?

[moonbiter]

i don't like giving my real details on the web because i get people calling me about an accident that i didn't know i had.


i called the police because i have tried 111 and i had to stay in que for 45min and no answer, that was the first time i also called the second time but also no answer (that was not on the same day)

it was getting too much, all the pinching and punching and shoving and name calling, this house i lived in was actually my home, i used to buy things to make it comfortable and homely. part of the reason why i work so much is so i don't have to come home to all the bs, working a day job is not an option because she wants to work in the day and need someone to look after the baby.

i shouldn't have to defende myself against her

[EDDIE51]

Read my first answer, I you have just proved my point!
You are obviously too immature to be looking after a child. You need to put your child's needs first which you are not doing at the moment! The Child's needs are far more important that the problems you and your partner have.

[ummmm]

Eddie - you can't judge someones personality by one post on AB.

[EDDIE51]

Ummmm read the original question and the reply from moonbiter!
It is more than enough !