My Crush's Behavior? Is He Interested In Me? Or Is He Just Being Friendly?

[tie-my-shoelace]

I’m having this huge crush on this guy I met in a outside-of-school youth orchestra, it’s been two years and I’ve never been so in love with someone for so long.

Here’s the things he did:
The first year when we first met, he was the first person to introduce himself to me, after we started following each other on Instagram, he gave my Instagram accounts to his younger sister and she stared following me there and now his sister and I are good friends. He also started following my (13 yo) little sister's Instagram account and often comments on there. The first year, during orchestra rehearsals he often talks to me but I was really shy so I didn’t really respond to them. At the end of the first year we had a concert and later he posted a picture and tagged my sister which i felt a bit odd because he's really popular in the orchestra and yet he tagged me in a picture with all his friends.

Fast forward to the second year, he's now a senior and I'm a junior, he stopped talking to me for a while until I was partially absent on a rehearsal for a contest, when I returned to the rehearsal and joined dinner with my friends, he came to sit at our table and ask how did my contest go and we started to talk about school and what we're going to major in college. Last time we were playing cards with his sister's friends and his friend sat next to him, and my crush asked him and I to switch seats so his friend can "learn quicker" (his friend didn't know how to play the game.) I'm confused because this year I'm trying to open up to people, and sometimes I said hi to him and he just walks away.

What does this mean? Is he annoyed of me? or is he just being normal and friendly and me being too imaginative?

[NoMercy]

I'm a tad confused by some of the elements of your post but instinct tells me that he's not interested.

Unrequited love is all part of growing pains sadly but I think it's time you gave up on this boy and moved on.

[waterboatman]

That's sound advice. You're young with a lot to learn, but you'll be fine. The right boy for you will come along one day.

[MallyJ]

Just carry on being friends .... something more romantic may develop ..or it may not. If it doesn't then you have made a good friend and if it does then you have a boyfriend. Plenty of time to let your relationship develop into whatever it will be. Actually in the most enduring long term relationships the people involved tend to be really good friends....!

[Old_Geezer]

If after two years you've not moved the potential relationship forward and either become more than friends, or confirmed that won't happen, then, IMO that boat has sailed. It's a bad idea to build and build an emotional tie without taking a deep breath and seeing if it's a possibility in the early days. It hurts more after all that build up and hoping if you find out it's not on after all. My best guess is that you have a friend but that's it. But go talk to them and find out what the situation is.