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Actually, trevt0m, He wants nothing to do with his children, so cannot buy them what they need when they see him. If he did then I would not be going through the CSA. If you also read my post, you will see I am not 'sponging off the state' as you put it, anymore. When we separated I had no choice other than to go on income support, We were in married quarters and we had to leave. I moved back near my family which meant I had to leave my job. I only went on income support while I moved and settled and got my kids settled. Once that had happened I went job hunting! I suggest in future, before you make predictions, that you find out the full story first!
Do you think that because he has suddenly decided he wants no further contact with his children, that gives him the right to walk away and not pay anything towards them? At the end of the day it took both of us to make the children!The money that I may receive from him will be spent on the children and the children only, anything that may be left over will be put into their savings account.