terambulan, I really feel sorry for you. Not just because you've lost your husband (me, too, so I know what your going through!), but for the stupid red tape that you're having to contend with. I had absolutely no trouble getting my late husband's medical records - the practice manager photo-copied them for me at no charge and although I had to pay for his hospital records, again, there was no problem getting them. I wish you the best of luck in your quest and for the future. Love, K xx