I wasn't proposed to really, my husband had just won a major bowls tournament, at the time the winners were given prizes not money, he won a companion set. For the unintiated it was a small polished barrel with brass hoops around it inside was a brush, small shovel, a poker and a pair of brass tongs to pick the coal up with. It looked nice, I thought it was to give to his (sainted) mother, but he said "this will go in our bottom drawer" I was 16/17 years old and gobsmacked. "Do you mean that" I said. "Oh Aye" he said. Typical blo**dy Yorkshireman.