This "rape" Business.

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I find it all very complicated and each case needs deciding on it's "merits" and in a composed an calm manner.

Violent outright rape by someone who is not known to the victim is horrendous and this is accepted by us all.

But women vary so much as to their needs and requirements which now would be accepted and regarded by the lay as ..."rape."

But is it?

Personal examples:

In my younger days i talk a girl to see the film "Straw Dogs" where Susan George was raped by an old boyfriend.The scene was quite explicit and at first, she resented the intrusion, but later, clearly enjoyed the experience.
On the way back to her cottage, which was in a small village, she asked me if i would tie her to the bed and rape her, although saying that she would struggle and resist.

Another of my female staff, admitted to me at a social function that her fantasy was to be raped by Barry White...the black singer.

Another girlfriend asked me to look through her bungalow window whilst she was reading, her hair combed into a bun, break in via the kitchen and drag her into the bedroom and despite her resistance...rape her.

I could go on.

what is the point of my thread?

It follows perhaps the posts on Jed Evans.....i suppose, but mainly to highlight that each case should be taken on it 's merits and not have a blanket description of....rape.

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It's not rape though, is it? It's playing out a fantasy with someone you know and presumably trust.

You've said all this before anyway.

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Yes1 yes"......but if it turned "nasty at any time, for any reason, it would be my would against hers that it was consensual and was indeed a "fantasy."

[ummmm]

Sounds like he's replaying it his mind, Snags.

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He has posted it before, more than once.

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word^^

snags.......yes....very relevant.

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It is laughable to be accused by ABers for saying the same thing ...over and over again.................that is de rigeur of AB.

No sorry....I am not replaying it for erotic reasons, but if that is what you think then do not contribute to the post.

[ummmm]

It's just the unnecessary details.

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woofgang

\\ its only the next day that one of them "decides" that they hadn't consented\\

Exactly....and that could happen even if it was "consensual" the previous night.

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JTH....no I haven't "bothered......my experiences and comments are "personal"........not read from a book.