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Hi, all, thanks for your interest - as far as I know, this meeting is about the disciplinary matter, in which case, if I understand the ACAS guide correctly, the "companion" can do a bit more than observe - it says they can speak for the person, put their case, respond on their behalf and confer with them during the meeting, which I think is quite a lot to ask from someone who isn't a Personnel-type person. They should also be a union rep, someone employed by a union or a fellow worker, which is where this question started. Employers can, but aren't obliged to, allow someone in who isn't in one of those categories. My friend has asked someone today from the bigger company to go with him and she said no - she asked her boss about it, who said it wouldn't be 'appropriate', so he's stuck. I've been telling him for weeks to get better prepared by collecting emails and making file notes etc to support his case but I think he's been coasting along thinking it wouldn't happen, which you can't do these days. The CAB apparently advised him to join a union, but when he spoke to various ones they all said they wouldn't help in a case that was already under way anyhow, so he didn't join anything. I suppose if he ends up getting sacked, he can at least go to a tribunal properly later.