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Jump On The Sexual Assault Band Wagon Or Not?

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RATTER15 | 09:26 Tue 14th Nov 2017 | ChatterBank
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Jump on the band wagon or not? With this flurry of allegations of sexual assaults... I have seen and heard people now saying that they are just just jumping on the bandwagon. If these people were assaulted, I think they should come forward and report it, no matter how long ago it happened. I think they are mostly true claims! I think that when people start realising that they cannot get away with touching people inappropriately it will stop or at least be severely curbed. I think more people are now coming forward because they feel that they will now be believed and supported. and it wont be swept under the carpet. I think its a good thing! or course there will be the odd one that is hoping to get rich quick, they will always be there and always have been. I do however think that there needs to be more evidence of wrongdoing before people are named and shamed and their lives and careers ruined.
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"I think they are mostly true claims!"

On what are you basing that? You weren't there. These allegations have nothing to do with you nor, I suspect, with anyone you know.
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Dave "On what are you basing that?" Its a guess, im guessing that most of these people aren't so stupid as to make false allegation, but obviously some will.
I am entitled to ask the question and I am entitled to have my own opinion. Like it or not!! if you dont like it dont respond!
Hear! hear! Ratter...;-)
Fact of life, not everyone is thick skinned.
//If these people were assaulted, I think they should come forward and report it// No, they should have reported it at the time.
We were having our morning cup of tea in bed this morning when there was an item on the news saying someone had been assaulted in 10 Downing Street - "He put his hand on my breast". I said to my wife "If he'd done that to you I think you would have put your hand on his face".
//A top BBC star has also been accused of inappropriate behaviour by his co-stars. The unnamed Dalek, a leading figure in the Cyborg community, originally denied allegations that he had ever been hell-bent on the ultimate conquest of the known universe, or that he had used offensive language.
But in response to further allegations, he issued this apology:
‘To have been born with wheels instead of legs, and with only a sucker for one arm and a lethal ray-gun for the other, has been a burden I have had to live with.
'And I continue to find stairs difficult. My voice, too, has upset people, but it is the only one I have.
‘Nevertheless, I have tried to overcome these disabilities and to live responsibly. Many of my friends tell me that I am a highly sensitive individual. It was therefore deeply disturbing for me to be faced with a secret recording of myself saying, “Exterminate! Exterminate!”
‘This was locker-room banter, a private conversation that took place many years ago. I apologise if anyone was offended. OK, so I said it. I was wrong. I apologise. I pledge to be a better man. Now that’s enough!’
Some of his victims argued that the Dalek’s apology did not go far enough. He replied: ‘I said I apologise, so it’s about time you all stopped whining! Exterminate! Exterminate!’//
//Apologies for past behaviour have also emerged from leading members of the extra-terrestrial community.
‘Behaviour that may have been considered perfectly normal ten or 15 years ago is now, rightly, abhorred,’ said top movie star Alien, who is currently undergoing therapy.
‘I now realise that it is wholly unacceptable to make a habit of bursting from other people’s chests without warning,’
And Jaws has also issued an fulsome apology, after 40-year-old film emerged of the leading Beverly Hills-based shark attacking holidaymakers on Amity Island. ‘I caused a lot of pain,’ he said.
Following a period in rehab —‘where I resolve to become the kind of shark my children can be proud of’ — Jaws is hoping to re-launch his movie career. Associates say he plans to move into the field of musical comedy, as he has always been proud of his winning smile.//

Haha.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/debate/article-5079517/CRAIG-BROWN-Apologies-fictional-characters-behaviour.html
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BHG "No, they should have reported it at the time." possibly, but until operation YewTree they most likely would never have been believed, look at all the people that were silenced at the BBC because no one would take on Jimmy Savile and the likes!! Now they feel they will be believed and supported!
"At the time" means whilst there is still a red handprint on his face.
Report it to whom?

A woman has a breast touched/felt/cupped, feels angry, doesn't say anything at the time, maybe a bit shocked - 'did that actually happen?!'

He then goes on and does similar or worse to another woman, and maybe a few more and then thinks he's got a licence to carry on with that behaviour.
I don't see it as a 'band-wagon' I see the whole situation as people have become fed up with being touched/talked to/texted in highly inappropriate ways and by speaking out, the perpetrators of such deeds should be very, very, ashamed.
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BHG "At the time" means whilst there is still a red handprint on his face.
Im amazed you have such little understanding of the situation involving a sexual assault!! do you really think that every woman that has been raped, violated or abused by a man has the courage to then physically attack him? I think you need to get a grip on reality!
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albaqwerty, well said.
Ratter - I would have thought that the instant reaction by a woman to having a breast deliberately touched would be a face-slap. I've seen it done.
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bhg. "I would have thought that the instant reaction by a woman to having a breast deliberately touched would be a face-slap."

I agree for some it would be, but not by all, especially when it is done in private, where a woman may feel vulnerable or frightened.
Ratter - yes, I agree if it's very private as it might lead to force being applied but if there are other people within earshot, even in another room, it ought to stop the situation escalating.
Doesn't work like that, bhg.
Interesting that all the claims are being made by women yet in the workplace I recall women being as 'jovially tactile', a pinch on the backside etc. as men yet where are the men's allegations? Do we not need to differentiate between sexual assault and knee touching or are the two considered to be the same now, as long as women say so?
Can you please expand on that ummmm? If you and I were in a room together and I made unwanred advances would you not slap my face and scream?
Men are as welcome to complain about it as women are. At least in theory. If they don't then, well, they should still be encouraged to speak up about it if possible.

What's somewhat sad is that the argument of "men suffer it too" often seems to be raised only to make the further point of "so women, get used to this crap and put up, because that's what we do".
we're not all 'slap your face' type of people, some will freeze in disbelief or fear, whether they be male or female bhg.
OK, thanks alba.

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