//Er, good luck with that atitude to the medical profession, in a confrontation there will be only one winner.......and it ain't you.//
Yes, sqad, I'm quite aware of that. And that is the root of the problem.
In 1948 the population was won over by the notion that medical treatment, which they previously had to pay for, was henceforth to be free. Of course it was nothing of the sort, but it suited politicians of the time to portray that as a fact. During the intervening seventy-odd years, that belief has been retained and reinforced: the population are eternally grateful for their "free" healthcare service, they dare not complain about it (because, for the vast majority, they have no choice but to use it when they are ill), and the NHS has taken on the nearest philosophy to a religion that many people have. As an unfortunate byproduct of this subservience to their religion, many people view their doctors as demi-Gods, not to be crossed, and certainly not to be argued with.
So we arrive at the situation you describe. Patients are customers of the NHS. Far from the service being free, government funded healthcare costs the equivalent of more than £3,100 annually (and rising considerably) for every man, woman and child in the country. More than one pound in every four raised in taxes goes on healthcare. But in any dispute with the medical profession (e.g. somebody wanting to consult a primary care doctor face to face, with the doctor declining to agree) there will only be one winner.
If we're speaking of attitudes, it's that attitude that needs to be addressed. If I was paying £3k a year for any other service, I would expect it to do what I required. The big difference, of course, is that with any other service, if it failed to come up to scratch I would take my custom elsewhere. I can't realistically do that with the NHS although I have every expectation of having to pay privately if I need any routine procedures such as joint replacement, cataracts, etc. and will consider paying privately to see a GP if I thought it was necessary.
It's not my fault that GPs cannot distinguish between malingerers, hypochondriacs, those who want a chat with someone and those in genuine need of medical treatment. I don't trouble my GP for anything trivial. I've got better things to do that fanny about negotiating the ridiculous hurdles they have erected to prevent my consulting them. But if I ever do need to consult one it will be largely impossible (anecdotally, of course, but based on very reliable information). And it's a bloody scandal.