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Love through the ages?
Lately I have started thinking about this and the more I think about it, the more I believe it could be true.
Most people tend to believe the 'one person for everyone' theory. But I met a guy who I got on great with and we had a 5yr relationship. Towards the end things went wrong and I guess we just weren't the same people anymore. But this doesn't mean he wasn't the right guy for me. He was the right guy at the time.
I am only 21 and I have changed alot since I was 16 and no doubt I will change alot in the next 10-20 years of my life. I think me and him had a fantastic relationship and we just didn't end up in the same place. Very rarely will you meet someone who grows with you and grows in the same ways. If you do then you are very very lucky. But I think that there will be many loves for the many different stages of my life, and until I am the person I will be for the rest of my days... then I won't meet someone who I will spend the rest of my days with.
Do you believe that you can have different loves for the different person you are in the stages of your life?
Am I making any sense! Lol.
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.I only want to marry once...for life.....so am being very picky...but my good looks are gonna fade as I get older so will probably end up doing what my mates have done and just find anyone.
Frankleigh.. I know what you mean.. Lol.. ;o)
Zeus - I heard a something once that I have always believed true.. (I think it was in Sex and the City).. Men are like cabs.. you got to catch them when their lights on. Most men drive around their whole lives without their lights on and they throw away potentially good wives. Then their light comes on, they want to get married and they marry the next one that comes along! Please.... wait until you find someone special.. it will be all the more worth it. :o)
Dear me- some of you youngsters- you cant analyse it for christ's sake! What a load of cack about being picky- its not a ruddy supermarket you know!!
And whats that rubbish about throwing away potential good wives. Grief- when it happens it will happen- you cant predict the future- and choosing carefully wont make the blindest bit of difference as to whether it lasts or not- you have to work at it to keep it going and alive. And even then, even though you think it will last for ever, it may well not- things change, people change and you may end up going your seperate ways. Dont try and analyse it- accept it! If you are desperate then that puts people off straight away.
And I am one of the lucky ones- married at 23 and me and the missus are still going strong 27 years later