irritating

[stylinsam]

do u ever feel so angry with one person that you hate looking and them and cant stand there voice. There is this one person at work who i hate i dont no WHY. just everything about him is irritating, the way he looks, the way he acts, the way he speaks. he has never done anything bad to me i just cant stand him. im not usually this type of person i get on with everyone but theres something about him....... am i normal??????

[4getmenot]

Oh yes I can agree with you on that one :-)

[redcrx]

4getmenot be nice to that poor little lad in your office. It cant be easy working with you lot lol

[scruffscat]

I only get irritated with people that remind me of other irritating people, if you know what i mean !

[stylinsam]

same as i say i dont no why i dislike him so much he has never done anything to me apart from been irritating.

[stylinsam]

i no what u mean scruffscat but i dont no anyone like him. hes the only person i really find irritating apart fro grace bb"!!!!

[4getmenot]

did I say him, for all you know it could be you redcrx :-)

[caz21]

Apparently you make a first impression of people within three/four seconds of meeting them which stays with you! I get this all the time when i book customers in at work i either think god i dislike you or wow i would quite like to go out with you on a night out etc. (i never show it either way is its not exactly professional but you know what i mean) its really strange!

[redcrx]

ah it could be :(

[beema]

I think I know what you mean. Possible explanations are that there is something phoney about him that you are picking up via his aura or you have developed a prejudice as he reminds you of someone or something you have a prejudice against (non necessarily on a concious leve) I tackle such things by meditating on the issue/person for 30-40 minutes which will resolve things and in time provided you with the answer to your feelings.

[Casey]

I felt exactly the same about this guy I used to work with!! I couldn't stand him he was the most irritating person ever! I had to leave in the end it got to me that much so i know just how you feel!

[stylinsam]

im glad im not the only one! its so weird for me though cos iv never felt like this before about anyone!

[4getmenot]

I don�t agree that first impressions stay with you for life because I know my first impressions of some people haven�t been good and yet some of them are my closest mates now. :-) and redcrx you know I love you

[Champagne]

I know EXACTLY what you mean, sam. I once worked with a lady who used to say "Blah blah-blah blah bleurgh!" in the most annoying Aussie accent and in the most inappropriate time in a sentence. It made me want to throttle her where she stood.

[wickedgirl2]

i know exactly what you mean sam - there is a few people where i work like that and they drive me mad, little things they do and the way they make a fuss out of EVERYTHING !!

you are totally normal xx

[Veggibear]

Yes absolutely - you are quite normal.

I feel this way about my dad and Ronan Keeting he he

[raysparx]

Hi Sam, We all come across people like that wierd isn't it, I bet your one wears Grubby Y fronts as well,had em on for 6 weeeks or more, do us a favour and have a look for me will you????

Take care, Ray xx

[joko]

perhaps try to get irritated at the individual things he does and then dismiss them as personality quirks rather than dislike him personally. that may help to see him as him not as a sum of his actions

i know what you mean though, and there is a theory that you knew them in a past life and they wronged you somehow.

[WendyS]

There is a theory that we dislike people who display the same personality traits as ourselves. I'm not sure whether this is a comfortable though to speculate on but there may be some truth in it.

[Backdrifter]

I reckon you secretly love him, and just haven't admitted it to yourself. Heh heh heh.