You are dead right Susiespider and the 'silent suspense' isn't the only thing that's irritating, what about the constant repeating of what we've just watched, before the ads, do the producers think we all have SUCH short memories.
Another thing thats annoying, is when watching a quiz programme, such as Eggheads, the contestants constantly say "I don't think the answer is 'A' or 'C' so I think it is 'B', Why not just say right away the bl**dy answer is 'B'.
I'm afraid that too many programmes are now being spoiled by time wasting.
Jonukas