problems again :(

[poltergeist]

basically when I first arrived in Hong Kong I was drunk one night and slept with this girl who lives close by to my appartment. Anyway I told her i had a girlfriend etc. but then 1 night I woke up and she was sat on the end of my bed (i never used to lock my door as they are luxury appartments with security guards 24hrs). Anyway nothing really happened but I gave her 100 pounds so she could buy a new phone. well this was like 6 months ago. but she is calling me constantly and comming round to my flat ringing the doorbell for like 20 minutes at a time! It really got to me and I started shouting and swearing to her down the phone. I know she was 22 but tried to scare me by saying that th police are on the way round as she was only 15 (a load of rubbish so I wasnt worried at all). She some how manages to be in contact with any girl I took back to my apartment and start saying crazy stuff about me (too rude to mention). I have explained to the security that I no way want her in my appartment. She has even started calling me up now trying to put on different voices etc. It really does make me fuming.
Anyway my wife might be comming to stay with me so what do you think I should do about this freak?

[kira000]

Take the battery out of your doorbell while your wife is visiting.
And turn your phone off. Tell your wife it is so you dont get disturbed.

And dont have one night stands with strangers, you never know who will be a psycho. Especially when you already have wife.

[poltergeist]

well she was only my girlfriend at the time

[kira000]

Sorry, you still cheated on your GF. Not on.

And psycho stalkers are your reward for doing it.

I'm sorry you are in this situation, but its for the sake of your wifes feelings, not for you getting into trouble.

[poltergeist]

the thing is i tried to be nice and she was calling me like 10 times in 1 hour to see if I wanted to meet her followed by 'im comming to your place' then the door bell ringing for 20 minutes. If I am rude and tell her I dont want to be with her and to leave me alone she threatens me about the police comming round or that she hangs out with triads etc etc. what is the best way to deal with this freak?

[crazycathy2]

Cheating is cheating , whether she is your girlfriend or your wife.

Change your number

[kira000]

Move house, and keep your bits in your pants in future.

In short term, book into a hotel while your wife is staying. Tell her its a treat.

[Leftfield]

And the moral of this sorry tale is?

Don't get so bladdered you end up sleeping with a bunny boiler - something you may have picked up on if you hadn't been wearing beer goggles.

What you are now experiencing is 'karma' my friend.

[gonzo00]

take a picture of her round to the local triads..they won't be hard to find in hong kong..give them a few yen and...problem solved!!!

[jadeymodel]

be honest with ur wife/gf because it hurts to find out the truth but a lies 10x worse. No good will come of this if i'm honest & you could change your number, ignore thiswoman but the truth ALWAYS comes out, And the longer you hide it & keep it from your girl the harder it will be for you both!

[sara3]

just don't let your wife stay with you, for her own sanity!

[Banali]

Move to Singapore

[Ice.Maiden]

Say you've lost your phone. Dump it. Buy another. Ignore the pestering female - and stop acting so stupid in future.

[tamborine]

let the poor stray in - am sure you can find some use for her.

[Seraphiel]

nothing really happened but I gave her 100 pounds so she could buy a new phone

And you wonder why she keeps coming back.

You are either naive - or stupid.

[Banali]

he's not niave!

[ummmmmdedum]

Hope you wore a condom. Your stalker friend might have Hep B now...!!!!

[necro.guy]

Oh well that should be the last of your worries. You will have to watch your wife and child die of liver failure. Didnt your mother die recently due to this through cancer? You should have learned your lesson then you stalker idiot.

[Chicklin,]

poltygeist (gravy), dude this is the season that I luvs this site, i' wreckin myself here, keep it up!!! Or in ya pants lol lol lol