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dan_amanda99 | 20:53 Thu 11th Mar 2010 | Law
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My girlfriends ex has been hassleing us since we got together, they have a child together and are going through law proccedings, as we believe he has an unhealthy attitude towards younger girls i created a fake facebook account of a 15 year old girl, i added him and and proceeded to talk to him and try and get him onside, within 1 day of chatting not even a couple of hours infact, he asked if they could be boyfriend and girlfiend, him knowing she is only 15 and him being 25, i have copied and pasted onto word the conversation and will be getting other messages from him soon my question is if i were to take this proof to the police or my girlfriends solicitor can it be used against him? as his unhealthy attitude towards younger girls is disturbing and and worrying especially as when my girlfriends daughter turns 15-16 he may have an unhealthy likeing towards her friends
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You pretending to be a 15 years old girl is deception. Remember the Facebook agreement and rules you agreed to before signing up for membership?
??? are you really for real? what 25 year old wouldn't be flattered that a 15 yo is chatting him up? by the time the daughter is 15/16 he may well not have what you describe as "unhealthy likeings" towards 15 year olds i'm guessing that wont be soon anyway, or did he father her when he was 10?
if he is hassling you more than any parent might (dont forget he does have a right to see his child) then you should have contacted the police then.

chances are he knew youd try somethin as silly as you did and was playing you for a mug.

I'd be more concerned about your attitude than his at the moment
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on the fake profile hes done all the chatting up we havent chatted him up at all the police have been involved as he has threatened the mother of his child and yes i understand the terms and agreements thats why i posted the question to see what we could do and it all started as he had a pic of my gf niece when she was 11 on his profile pictures its alot more complicated than id like to go into detail about
leave it to police to investigate if they feel he is a danger, you could cause more harm than good with your amateur attempts?

your "evidence" is pointless really
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but thats my point how do we go about reporting our concerns?
just report it to local station or call crimestoppers.

Is the photo indecent? give them all the info that you have. Not heresay as im sure they will see that you have a vested interest in getting this guy in trouble and out of your way

Dont go telling the police about your "honey trap"
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I think you are on dangerous ground here , due to your devious behaviour on Facebook.
What exactly are you trying to achieve?
If you have genuine concerns about this person and his attitude to young girls, and you can substantiate these concerns with real. hard evidence , then you must inform the police and let them deal with it.
It is not enough for you to believe he has a certain attitude.
Does this person merit the possibility of having his life ruined, by your very devious amateur detective work based on a deception by you on the internet.?
This is revenge .. not justice ... obviously.
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its not revenge your opinions on why its been done are not what we were after it was a question worded wrong and all ive had is insults and hardly any help theres a 25 year old out there with a history of having an interest in underage girls and some of you say im the one in the wrong ive seeked REAL legal advice and its being delt with your opinions are not appreciated thankyou!!
No,its entrapment.If you have genuine concerns about his behaviour towards young girls,tell the police and let them do the trapping.
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there are no entrapment laws in this country how do you unsubscrbe from this site im getting annoyed with the emails and the comments???

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