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Good morning all - sorry for the long-winded post and I truly didn't want to mention money and all what I had done but I did say it and meant it - because my nephew was murdered and the mother died of a broken heart 2 years later I know my brother received a lot of help ie money from different funding and of course (I know he did not get much) ie £7,000 for his son - however, he went on to receive benefits and to be quite honest - whilst he made a bit of food for the kids and clothed them - he drank and gambled the lot. There should be no bookies - Paddy Power or as we have Sean Graham here - by Gawd received £1,000s from him - it certainly never went into luxuries towards the home. This is what has annoyed me to the max. Yes Wingnut - his attitude is the world owes me a living. One of you suggested having a quiet word - you really couldn't - he must must must have the last word. When I visited him (for talks sake) I was telling him to be appreciative for everything that was being done and told him that he would be paying £1,000s in America (if had had no insurance) it runs off him like a water of a duck and he said to me "are you talking to me like a doctor" - Yes to another posting - was always like that. You know I had very mild and strict parents who would have put him in his place. The youngest was 5 years old when this all happened and I never miss them at Christmas or birthdays until they turned 21 - sorry but I am still hurt. As my sister said my other brother who died last year when he left hospital with appointments etc- he would get a taxi - bring up bottles of wine, biscuits, chocolates for the nurses. Nothing in this guy. Some of you wanted to ask me questions - go ahead - cos I am glad to vent my anger on this site - and no, will never tell anybody. I live on my own as you know and I am sure the families on the cul-de-sac that lady is so lucky - cos she has no cares and woes. Aren't they wrong?