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Should I let my teacher know when summers over about this cyber bullying or just leave it?
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I was involved in a fight that occurred in June .. And then this all kicked off on facebook. People started to write stuff on the girls wall that battered me like;"It took someone to shut her up you legend"
"You battered____ good women" And also people made up fake facebooks called buddys to annoy me about it and wrote things to me saying; " buddy knows yeh got yer head kicked in by _____ like ******* batterd buddy knows your heads up your own hole nd that your rather cocky buddy dislikes you :D"
and another one was;
" Buddy knows you act like your better than everyone else and for this you got punched in the face on your last couple of days." Then about a month later it started again when a girl posted something on her friends facebook wall (this is the girl who battered me) the thing she posted had nothing at all to do with the fight. But then a boy out of my class who absolutely hates me commented under it "u forgot to write about the ***** fight" and then she commented (attacker) "so she deserved it :)" and then he liked that comment.. and then he wrote back " not according to our year head" but he said it very sarcastic" and then she replied back "ah **** him". She then posted a status saying like if u think I'm lying: I've never drunk, Never been in a fight... to which another boy replied i know that's a lie cause I was there when u battered _____. The few weeks before this people were making fake facebooks called buddies. The way they work is that they say post a comment on my wall and I'll write a bit about you. I wrote on their wall because they said nice things about everyone else. And when they got round to mine one of them wrote " buddy knows yeh got yer head kicked in by _____ like ******* battered buddy knows your heads up your own hole and that your rather cocky buddy dislikes you :D".. There's many more things that's been said over facebook.. I'm scared to go back to school because of this. My year head told me to come to him if anyone mentioned it to me but would he want to know about this? Thanks
And also am I over reacting
"You battered____ good women" And also people made up fake facebooks called buddys to annoy me about it and wrote things to me saying; " buddy knows yeh got yer head kicked in by _____ like ******* batterd buddy knows your heads up your own hole nd that your rather cocky buddy dislikes you :D"
and another one was;
" Buddy knows you act like your better than everyone else and for this you got punched in the face on your last couple of days." Then about a month later it started again when a girl posted something on her friends facebook wall (this is the girl who battered me) the thing she posted had nothing at all to do with the fight. But then a boy out of my class who absolutely hates me commented under it "u forgot to write about the ***** fight" and then she commented (attacker) "so she deserved it :)" and then he liked that comment.. and then he wrote back " not according to our year head" but he said it very sarcastic" and then she replied back "ah **** him". She then posted a status saying like if u think I'm lying: I've never drunk, Never been in a fight... to which another boy replied i know that's a lie cause I was there when u battered _____. The few weeks before this people were making fake facebooks called buddies. The way they work is that they say post a comment on my wall and I'll write a bit about you. I wrote on their wall because they said nice things about everyone else. And when they got round to mine one of them wrote " buddy knows yeh got yer head kicked in by _____ like ******* battered buddy knows your heads up your own hole and that your rather cocky buddy dislikes you :D".. There's many more things that's been said over facebook.. I'm scared to go back to school because of this. My year head told me to come to him if anyone mentioned it to me but would he want to know about this? Thanks
And also am I over reacting
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.It is against two laws in the UK to use the telephone or internet network to cause fear or distress. Whoever did this is breaking the law. You would not accept people saying these things in the street to you, so why accept it because it is the internet?
Having said that, many people 'in power' do not understand this and you may find you are fobbed off with 'oh it's just horseplay'.
If you are under 16 and still at school there are a couple of things that you can do. Tell you head of year, and if possible contact the school now and ask if you can speak with / arrange a meeting to discuss your fears. Many teachers are in today and from here on, for GCSE results and general planning.
Also if you are under 16 your parents should be in there with you, listening and supporting where needed.
But in addition this is a criminal matter, you need to be able to discuss your fears with an appropriate contact in your local police.
In the meantime don't react to the messages, but take copies (use print screen on keyboard, paste into word and save).
Too much of this kind of bullying is allowed to go on and too few 'adults' understand that it is an assault just as much as hitting someone.
Having said that, many people 'in power' do not understand this and you may find you are fobbed off with 'oh it's just horseplay'.
If you are under 16 and still at school there are a couple of things that you can do. Tell you head of year, and if possible contact the school now and ask if you can speak with / arrange a meeting to discuss your fears. Many teachers are in today and from here on, for GCSE results and general planning.
Also if you are under 16 your parents should be in there with you, listening and supporting where needed.
But in addition this is a criminal matter, you need to be able to discuss your fears with an appropriate contact in your local police.
In the meantime don't react to the messages, but take copies (use print screen on keyboard, paste into word and save).
Too much of this kind of bullying is allowed to go on and too few 'adults' understand that it is an assault just as much as hitting someone.
This is just plain evil. Why do you stay on facebook? There are other sites you can use and just put real friends on there. You don't say what your friends think of this. If you are isolated it may be worth joining a volunteer group of some kind...to meet people who will help your self-esteem. My daughter suffered bullying of this kind, by phone, in the end we reported it to the police and they sorted the girl out. If there are problems at school you should probably talk to the counsellor. You don't mention your parent/s are they around? I know parents do not seem very cool but they do love you some.
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