Ladies, Sex, Impotence And Medication

[nailit]

if you're a lady and you meet someone who you want to have a relationship with (a male) and he is impotent because of the medication he is taking, would that affect your desire / choice to have a relationship?

I dont want to know about the usual platitudes...(love more important than sex, I love him because of who he his, he's such a wonderful guy etc)

I'd like a bit of honesty. Could you have a relationship with a guy that is impotent because he has to take medication.
And would you live in hope that one day he would be able to 'show' his love in a physical way?
Thanks.

[factor-fiction]

Is it something that's likely to be discussed on one of the first few dates?

[Sqad]

I am not a "laydeee."....but

\\\Could you have a relationship with a guy that is impotent because he has to take medication. \\\

Tens of thousands of men with impotence for various reasons are satisfying women physically culminating even in orgasm without the need for penile penetration.

Believe me!

[tamborine]

It would unless he could dance

[RandyMarsh]

you go squiddly

What he said, get your technique honed. :)

[anneasquith]

how rich is he ?

[woofgang]

I think it depends a bit on age and the issue of children. Sqad is right about the "nuts and bolts"
Are you asking about a celibate relationship or one where there was no prospect of penetrative sex?

[nailit]

FF, doubt it!!!! Dont do 'dates' anyway!
Sqad, dont doubt it, Ive suffered from impotence at different times in my life but have always been in a relationship at the time and always known what turns my partner on and able to 'make amends' as it were. (never had no complaints either ;-)
Its a bit more complicated when its a new relationship and you have to explain why you cant get it up.

[EDDIE51]

There once was a policeman of Munchen
Who's tool it just would not function
For most of his life he deceived his poor wife
With some snot on the end of his truncheon !

[Purple_Popple]

If you love, genuinely love someone then sex is just a part of a loving relationship, so no, if I was deeply in love with a man it would not matter a jot to me, as Sqad has already noted, there are several ways to 'enjoy' each other without actual penetration.

[Sqad]

\\\\\Its a bit more complicated when its a new relationship and you have to explain why you cant get it up. \\\\

Not a problem.........explain and she either takes it or leaves it.......................they will invariably take it.

[lcg]

no....it wouldn't bother me. i am married to my hubby because of who he is. mental health problems, poverty, homelessness, impotence and libido problems, physical disability and all. i am at a loss to understand anyone who enters or maintains a relationship based on anything other than......do i love this person? and by that, i mean the personality, humour, frailties, capacity to love, intelligence and moral compatibility. anything else is not love, but a sham....and in some cases, prostitution (in the case of sugar daddies or other fiscal gain etc.). i feel very sorry for anybody who would choose to have a relationship with somebody other than love......and for me it was love at first sight. very weird considering i am not a romantic or touchy-feely person. so yes - it wouldn't bother me and if this question is about you, then wait for the right woman to come along. we are out there and not all of us are shallow, scheming or materialistic - as portrayed so many times in this horrible moeren society of ours.

[Retrochic]

Truth? a new relationship -I wouldn't date anyone on medication and if I found out they were on something that made them impotent I would drop them. But, if my OH of 23 years had to go on meds that made him droopy I would have to think up other ways to enjoy ourselves.

[tamborine]

Lol eddie but gross ;)

[nailit]

//Truth? a new relationship -I wouldn't date anyone on medication and if I found out they were on something that made them impotent I would drop them.//

Truth hurts I guess.
Ah well,

[Retrochic]

nailt this is just my opinion and probably in the minority but you did ask -anyway I'm spoken for so good luck in your conquests, just don't mention you know what on your first date xx

[Sqad]

"Truth?"

With gentle and understanding foreplay, by the time that Retrochic came to orgasm, she would be on another planet and wouldn't know what was or wasn't...in.

[Retrochic]

You'r right sqad, just about describes every saturday night for me lol!

[nailit]

I'm on anti depressents, side affect they make me (more or less) impotent.
Further side affects they repel women. They dont print that on the bottle do they?

[Sqad]

LOL ^^^. I can do what i have described whilst watching "Match of the Day."

[Fusion5]

If I really had feelings for that person then it would not be a problem, there are more ways to skin a cat, so to speak.

That said I think age plays a big part. If in 20s or 30s perhaps not so understanding, but advancing in age, we become more tolerant