OK , well leightOn, i have posted a 'similar' question to this and i too was unsure WHERE to post it so i put it under Christmas?? no real reason, just didnt wanna get a bo*****ing for putting it in the wrong place!
Its still there if you want to read it, and i was suprised to find i only got one reply?? Some of my questions get interesting/funny/helpful answers, (i think its worse if you dont get a reply at all!!) its almost personal .......... like its such a s**t comment nobody can even be ar*** to answer.
I think al lot of people have been 'doing' the AB sooo long now that they feel kinda protective towards it, and i have (sometimes) found that a lot of people know each other very very well, and sometimes i have read conversations that i wouldnt DREAM of joining in with, for the fear of being treated like the poor realative at a wedding! I have often wondered why some use AB instead of just getting together on MSN, it CAN be very 'clicky' especially if you are new, but then i have changed my 'name' a few times and been amazed at how differently i have been answered, people i have been joking with for months havent realised i am the same person?? Bizzarre?
You see, because of the fact that you really dont know who you are talking to young/old/fat/thin/black/white there is ALWAYS the risk that you are gonna upset someone, so if i were you i would just keep at it, probably some people on here are very lonely, and maybe dont get another chance to let off steam? dont take it too personally, after all, nobody knows you so feel free to air your views, every body else does, and.............. if you get chastised, just consider yourself told Young Man!! er.... or Young Woman lol