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thank you for all your little pointers, certainly some food for thought and research leads.
grasscarp - sounds lovely, i have been to pisa, and will deffo look up your suggs.
mosaic - we may try a train trip to somewhere picturesque - if only to have a break from the car !
jno - i remember something a bit like this when i went to florence, will watch out for that, thanks.
crisgal - thanks for the suggs and the link, we will investigate. is ladospili far from your village ?
spudsqueen - we will look into cattolica thanks. i am aware that rome needs more than just a day, but i just wanted my wife to see part of it at least. with 2 young children we wouldnt want to spend time trawling round the city and its wonderfuil sites too much, but a babysitter in a foreign country is an absolute no no.
crisgal/jno - we don't mind s/c in this sort of holiday as it gives us the freedom to come and go as we please and eat where/when we like (e.g. some of these hilltop towns have lovely family restaurants and cafes to explore). we did all inc beach hoiday last year which was great but you are tied to the hotel and do get a bit fed up of the clockwork, restarant & food no matter how good the hotel.
once again, thanks to each and every one of you.