Question Author
yes I am still with my husband. He wants to do whatever makes me happy. But how do you just disappear when they can ring you on a mobile or at a workplace that you havent left. Sorry there is no way I would tell this woman how I feel. I would rather not hear anything back from her once she got talking about me to others if I fell out with her. I see it that we wont really see much of our friends in Oz friends and America and our friends in Switzerland have only just moved there. I want to just say hubby has got a new job, in Dubai or somewhere crazy, unconnected with our jobs now, and just say we will be in touch when we get sorted. The couple over here are definitely the type to say they will come and visit! They have even suggested we all go and visit our friends in Switzerland, how to I get out of that as it's so forward planning! It's a shame having to cut everyone off and will probably kill me to do it but the reminders are just too much to bear and are afffecting our relationship, I want to just move on.