But gay men don't seem to go for pink. I think it must be too much of a cliche for them. Black seems to be the standrad gay colour, and I think it's a good look.
I think men look great in pink, but not gay men, funnily enough. Gay men in pink look like Liberace. Straight men in pink seem to be saying, "I'm confident about my sexuality, so I can wear pink".
I sometimes wear a pink shirt & pink tie to the office, and I don't feel paranoid about it. As my boss - a woman - once told me, "It takes a real man to wear pink".