He Admitted His Feelings, Why Can't I Make Up My Mind

[chloemoretz1995]

Okay i'm a 17 y/o girl & have been good friends with this 18 y/o boy for a while.
we go to the same schools.

when we met, we got along together amazingly well. his personality is beautiful.
he has an awesome attitiude and i just love spending time with him.
he gets along well with my friends as well, and I get along well with his friends too

he has give me lots of hints that he likes me more than a friend for the past few months
yesterday we were tlakin on facebook for ages & he admitted his feelings for me
he asked me to be his girlfriend
i didn't know how to reply so i didn't :'( im going to have to reply this morning because i'm going
to see him later

I love his personality, i love spending time with him, he makes me happy, we get on well with each other's friends...but... i can't make up my mind as to whether i find him attractive or not :'(
i just don't know if i like him physically :'(

[factor-fiction]

Just go out and see if you enjoy being with him , and then decide whether you both want to take it further

[pixie373]

Why don't you spend some more time with him properly and see how you feel then? You don't need to make any long-term promises now- just see how it goes.

[heathfield]

Sigmund Freud said the best way to make a decision is to toss a coin. But...if you're at all disappointed with the result, change it!

[IggyB]

This guy is in the friendzone, few ever escape.

Do the right thing and tell him straight that there won't be a relationship beyond friends, it is unkind to keep him hanging on the off chance you change your mind.

[Prudie]

Have you got any desire to kiss him? If not you won't want him as a 'boyfriend'. Not at the moment anyway.

[pusskin]

Take your time and see how the first date goes. No rush is there, and see if you feel comfortable in his company

[Old_Geezer]

You are still young, you are likely to have many boyfriends over time. If you know you like him then why not take a chance ? Just make sure you set the limits to the relationship where you want them. You are allowed to get out again later when you wish, just don't flit in and out of relationships as if you aren't really treating others with respect; which doesn't sound like the sort of thing you'd do anyway.