Should I Break Up With My Best Friend?

[vhtx]

I have a bff and I cannot see my life without her. a year ago she did something hurtful to me that I just can never let go or trust her again. Long story short I got in a fight at school. Part of the reason i got into the fight was because she twisted my words of what i said to her to this other girl and basically the other girl got mad and confronted me about it. One thing turned into another and it led to me being punched in the face and head several times. I felt so humilated. I basically got beat up in front of the whole school. I confronted my friend by texting her asking her why she would run her mouth about something I never said, to somebody I dont even get along with. But that made her mad she basically called me names and threatned to show up in my house and fight me too. But the part that really broke my heart was when she went on my instagram and posted a comment saying "you got beat up mane" with the laughing emoji. I honestly can forget about her running off her mouth and twisting my words to that girl because maybe it was a misunderstanding. But how could she have the audacity to publicily shame me for being humiliated in front of the whole school like that? We stopped talking for several weeks but then made up. The problem is everytime i look at her I see the same person that back stabbed me emotionally. I just want to know if I am being petty by holding a grudge against her or do I have every right to feel the way I do about her and should I just leave her?

[waterboatman]

You are the only one that can decide that.

[1ozzy]

**** oath, dump the ***

[1ozzy]

Oh, deary me, thought that first word would be replaced by ****

Oops ;-(

[waterboatman]

tut tut

[waterboatman]

Want me to take that off oz?

[1ozzy]

Hangs head in shame, for a micro-second or two.

[1ozzy]

Maybe the AB swear filter could add another word to its expansive collection.

I don't **** care ;-)

[waterboatman]

:-D

[10ClarionSt]

vhtx - you should go round to your "friends" house. When she opens the door, punch her in the face. Then tell her there's more where that came from. Fight fire with fire, otherwise you're going to suffer more.

[1ozzy]

That's what I was trying my best to say 10C

Guess I'm not as eloquent

[10ClarionSt]

My usual eloquence, Ozzy. As subtle as a bucket of manure. In hot summer!

[MallyJ]

Sometimes we just need to walk away from people who let us down...and really to punch someone back just brings you down to their level...walk away with your head held high.

[10ClarionSt]

.......including fat lip, thick ear and black eye!

[waterboatman]

My honest opinion is that she is not the friend you thought she was. I don't think you could trust her again.

[Bobbisox1]

Vhtx, a best friend or even a friend wouldn't do that, walk away, you'll make other friends along the way, this girl is not a friend to you

[1ozzy]

Reckon I summed that up @ 17:02 Bobbi
In my own way of course

[Spicerack]

Never confide in anyone. Never rely on anyone. People will always let you down.

[Bobbisox1]

Tsk,tsk Lozzy, can't see that lasting the morning tho, haha

[Bobbisox1]

Spicy, Nooooo, I've got a couple of long term friends who'd never let me down, I trust them implicitly

[1ozzy]

Me either Bobbi, but I got it in ;-/