I Wonder Why This Number Is Rising So...
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.If you mean while you are playing, then your technique is faulty. Cymbals should last for ages if they are struck correctly - any player who is cracking or breaking cymbals is hitting them incorrectly - have a word with a drum teacher about the problem.
For gear, check out the very excellent Drummer* Magazine, available in all major newsagents - they carry loads of adds, reviews, and advice.
* other drum titles are available, but not as good!