If You Had A Twin, But Didn't Realise...
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Thanks Woofgang. I did tell all those things(except for the bit bout dancing with a blokie obv). I just wanted a little sympathy, and not even for the hangover but for the fact that his cousins were coked off their t*ts and left me high and dry with two people I don't know that well. I've been apologising for the past day, for upsetting him, or coming across like I have something to hide, and don't know whether it is best to let just get it out of his system or what. Men are a pain in the backside. We all get down and vulnerable from time to time - but does he have to do it when I feel like cack??!! Humph.
Humph?????????
Good god natalie, is it only women that are allowed to feel like pooh? most time you lot put it down to pmt, hormones etc but, remember, us lads feel stress as well, getting married is a very very stressful time, (trust me, i've been married three time already and each time is worse than the last).
Your fiancee will be hoping that this is the best day of your life, and he'll be working hard to ensure that it is.
Enjoy your wedding sweetheart, go on honeynoon and enjoy being married to a caring man.
Thanks john, I did say that we were both under stress and that I can understand him feeling vulnerable.
Can't he do it midweek when I am feeling ok though? As opposed to the morning after the night before when I can't even remember what day it is whilst being grilled on where I was and what I did?
I am of course (half) joking, and know that I am very lucky to have him. It's just a sympthasize with him and look after him when he is hungover/ ill. He gets bacon sarnies and endless cups of coffee. When I am ill, it gives me extra time at home to get the housework done! But don't even get me started there. It's Monday and it's not even 9 o'clock yet.
I have a very caring, sweet and thoughtful man, who is senstivie sometimes, just like me. But I don't know what to do!
Thank heavens they didn't have hen nights as far back as when I got married. It seems to be they're just an additional source of stress and expense at the very time you need to be calm and trying to keep your finances in order.
Just forget it Natalie and don't refer to it again. The pair of you are probably wound up like tight springs waiting to snap. Just recognise that just about anything could trigger an irritable outburst at the moment so take yourselves out for a long quiet walk away from all the hassle and fuss and focus on all the good things ahead of you. Let him know you'd rather have his company than anybody else's and it will soon blow over.
perhaps he already knows and is annoyed that you haven't told him!
if his cousins were there....and there could also have been others who know him in the same club, who have told him - even in jest - he could have seen images on a camera phone etc etc and is wondering why you are hiding it from him
tell him the truth and just you only just remembered - like a flash back - as you were so drunk.
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