Love VS Sex!

[lucylocket69]

So, not the actual question you might have been expecting, but would would you say?

Your partner cheating on you having emotionless amazing out-of-of-this-world sex with another bloke/gal.......OR.......your partner falling in love with someone, yet no physical contact made was worse?

Hmmmm, I think i would say love, but i would be so jealous of him havin better sex with someone else!! lol ;P

[4getmenot]

same as you I think. Love would crush me

[cyanide]

Without a doubt for me it`d have to be love because thats everything gone isn`t it?

[Octavius]

Well can we assume that the amazing out of this world jigga-jig is a one off? In which case, I should think it would become a future reoccurrence?

Falling in love is more long term.

I would choose neither, but at a push, some out of this world amazing humpty-dumpty with Mrs O would be just fine.

[ALLO5775]

the sex. if he fell in love with somone else that would hurt, but atleast i would know he didn't cheat. or put me at risk for something bad. like std's

[4getmenot]

good point allo. That would hurt knowing it was for something that didnt matter, you've actually made me change my mind

[ALLO5775]

thanx 4getmenot!!!!!!!

[Skreecheeboy]

Sex definitely! At least if it's love then their future happiness would be compensation of sorts I guess and there's plenty more fish in the sea.

[girlygirl2]

Love would hurt more - sex is just sex

[Champagne]

Definitely love. I'd feel rejected anyway at the sex thing, but at least I could walk away thinking that deep deep down he'll live the rest of his pitiful little life in complete misery mourning the loss of his one true love� ME!!

Which is pretty much exactly the scenario involving my ex (excluding the better sex because he's already admitted to me that it wasn't better. HA!)

:oD

[lucylocket69]

Haha good on ya champers:)

[4getmenot]

thats so wrong to compare sex with someone else. Bad man.

[Rubyrose]

Either way the relationship is over! Because either way he is never going to get her out of his head, never stop thinking about her! He will always be thinking about her during sex if he loves her, and even more so if he just loves sh@gging her! No recovery from this situation!

But if I was going to lose my guy...... it better be for a damn good reason like Love! Not just that he got his leg over and then couldn't get her out of his mind!

[sophie_1003]

sex because then id dump him n hed be on his own and it would serve him right!! if he fell in love with someone else it would hurt more and when i dumped him thered be no consolation of him being on his own!

[Roughquest]

Its a catch 22 situation at the end of the day, love comes first, and sex is fantastic if the love is their IMHO....damn it...sex is 99% mindwork.....love runs deeper....

[unruliejulie]

Love would be the one because sex can be so meaningless. Love runs so deep and if they love somone else then they dont love you anymore. You can get over them havig sex with another person. If your partner has fallen in love with someone else then im afraid there's no furture as far as i can see.