relationships

[dead eye]

ive met this girl in october, and in dec she got dumped my her bf, now im crazy about her, and shes said she likes me and said she would date me if she didnt have a boyfriend, mind it was that night she got dumped, anyway i want to tell her i love her, but i dont want to rush her into anything, if shes not ready, what should i do?

[cazzz1975]

wait, dont go declaring your love for her, give her some space to find herself first, just keep things platonic, dont go putting unnecessary pressure on her by saying you love her ect,

if you rush her into stuff then you stand a good chance of being the one who gets hurt in the end

[dead eye]

yeah im happy with letting her find herself, being there for her, she knows she means alot to me, just im worried that she find someone else, we are off on holiday in june, so i was going to wait till then, but im scared il loose her...

[cazzz1975]

but if she likes you she will be with you if she doesnt then you have to accept it was never meant to be, you cannot make someone love you, telling them you love them is unfair because your putting emotional pressure on her that she really doesnt need.

[dead eye]

yeah, i think il leave it, see how things go, if it happens it will happen

[dead eye]

not very good at this sort of thing :$

[cazzz1975]

I think you have made a really good decision, if its meant to be it will happen, dont try to force it...