Sex vrs Love.

[Abdulmajid]

Swinging is on the increase according Men's Health magazine.

Personally, I question the whole morality of it.

My question:

Can a man (or woman) really love somebody if they are happy to watch them have nookie with somebody else? Surely if their love life is so low they need extra-marital stimulation, the love has gone, no?

Yes I have Victorian values regarding sex, but do have some liberal views. But swinging is little more than perverse lust in my opinion.

So, should swinging clubs be made illegal like brothels? Both are establishments where sex is devalued and money crosses hands somewhere.

[bednobs]

no, brothels should be made legal like swinging clubs

[tigwig]

I personally could never watch my hubby have sex with anyone else and neither could he watch me. Fair play to those who do it but I do think there is something missing from the relationship to have to resort to those levels.
I don't think swinging clubs should be made illegal as it is up to consenting adults what they do.
For the same reason I think prostitution should be legalised. In my personal opinion if people want to pay for sex then so what?

[Abdulmajid]

The moral fibre of society tigwig. The moral fibre!!!!!!

[Marg0]

my girlfriend asked me if I was having sex behind her back. Who the hell did she think it was?

[shylock73]

Excuse me Margo,....... Margo,....... hmm,....... `queer` that. Strange name for a boy???

[jake-the-peg]

When talking of morals you have to ask yourself where you get these moral ideas from.

If the're just gut reaction well that's fine to live your life by but don't ask everybody else yo live by your gut!

If it's religion well that's nice but not many of us are religious these days.

A better more universal source of morality is to allow people the maximum freedom that does not cause harm to another.

You may not like the idea but there are those who do and they don't harm you so we might as well let them get on with it.

It's very dangerous to attempt to bring laws into peoples bedrooms - It has a habit of getting very messy