I have a problem with my boyfriend. Dont know what to do.

[SizzleSquid]

this may sound silly, but ive been with him for 2.5 years. First year, great we argued alot, and i wasnt sure if i actually wanted to be with him. When we argue its quite bad-shouting, throwing things etc, immature stuff., but he always made me feel as if he cared and told me he loed me eery day, even commenting on future togeter. Now, he is rude to me, 9we live together) he says i always go on and on at him, how i nag him, but its only because he never shows me real affection and this bothers me. He also makes me feel insecure and paranoid. Im not allowed male friends, yet i found that he was conversating with girls (just as friends) at his workplace. He doesnt speak to tem anymore, but the fact he lied about it i dont feel i trust him. He proposed to me 6 months after we met now he said he does not want marriage or kids with me when he did previously. he says he loves me but he talks to me with disrespect and if hes ouyt and i call him he accuses me of calling him every five minutes when its actuallty 2 or 3 times in the day to ask how he is./ what time hes coming home. he never calls me. i feel he does not care anymore however when i ask him to leave he doesnt want to go. Its got to the point where i want to be with him everyday, as im yearning for that affection he once gave me. I can moan alot but if he showe me he was committed, love and affectioon i wouldnt feel so needy. Is this my fault or his that things arent working? Im just sick of this, i used to be so independant.

[Mamyalynne]

It sounds like this relationship has broken down, if he shows no respect and you yearn for affection and are not getting it. If you share a home it may be that it's easier to stay put, but if the love has gone it is time to move on.
Good luck getting your life back on track.

M♥

[ooh-la-la]

ow sweeetie, he sounds like a a**e hole. I know it seems so hard to do as you've spent so much time with him but If i were you i'd get him out and be quick about it. You can't have a relationship that's just based of lies and arguments; and i know it may not seem like it now, but i promise you that after a little time your be so much happier

[brenda]

I think you already know that this relationship is over.Who is at fault is not important now.Time for you to walk away , or get rid of him , unless you want a very miserable life.I am sorry that you are so unhappy ,but the answer lies in your own hands I am afraid .I am sure you are worthy of a better life than this , so why not do something positive about it?

[rowanwitch]

Time to get yourself back....he will never give you that affection you need but you also need to work through some of your own issues you sound like you've become very needy and you wouldn't want to take that bad habit into a new relationship when it comes along

[Brinjal]

Time to move on. Find the one who deserves to be with you. Lifeis too short toput up that nonsense