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sp1814
Thank you for your explanations, but you have only answered the exact point I was trying to get over.
Your reference to certain words now being offensive to gays (or should I now say homosexuals) I am at a loss?
/// 'self-confessed' has connotations of admitting something that one would rather hide, ///
Once again, how have you come up that 'self-confessed' is admitting you have something you would rather hide? I was merely pointing out that you made no secret of the fact.
/// "an establishment frequented by homosexuals", when 'gay bar' is what they meant. ///
What the heck does it matter, only words once again, perhaps once again they were trading on glass, and thought that an establishment frequented by homosexuals, sounded better than 'Gay Bar'.
/// openly gay, rather than 'self-confessed homosexual' /// ??????
/// Homophobic or anti-gay /// ?????????
/// newspapers tend to write, 'Actor X has revealed he's gay' rather than 'Actor X has admitted he's gay'. /// ?????????
Stop, stop, stop, it gets more and more confusing.
/// These may look like tiny semantic details, but they are quite important, ///
The question has to be asked important to whom? Homosexuals I presume, I would never have thought about them, my heads in a spin.
Finally in reply to this statement of mine,
Well couldn't the same also be said , "you don't understand, not being a heterosexual"?
You said'
/// Nope...I've never said that ///
My answer:
I never said you did, I was just making a comparison of feelings.
Just consider that heterosexuals can also be offended, just as religious people can be, so why aren't their feelings considered also?