Jake, //Everybody who likes the grammar school system seems to be associated with grammar schools and not secondry moderns - funny that! //
What’s funny about it? Unlike people who go to Secondary Moderns, we know what Grammar schools offer.
//Find us someone who's kids are at a secodry modern who thinks the system is good and maybe people will take you seriously.//
How many of those parents would turn down the opportunity if their children proved themselves bright enough? Your philosophy mirrors exactly what NJ said. //unless everybody can have the best then nobody can//.
//It's particularly difficult for bright kids who don't get much support at home to compete with those from better off famillies who do - they can't afford tutors for the 11 plus //
I didn’t have tutors to get me through the 11 plus – and frankly, in my experience, those who do flounder at Grammar school where they are expected to achieve on their own ability. As any sensible parent knows, you can’t buy brains, and those who try are doing their children a great disservice, because kids who scrape through the exam are like fish out of water at a Grammar school, and often stay no longer than a year or two. An acquaintance of mine did something similar. Brought tutors in to get his daughter into university. She dropped out after a year because she, and I quote, ‘didn’t know what ‘they’ were talking about’!
//and so the decks are stacked against them from the age of 10.//
The odds are stacked against them? Why? Surely you’re contradicting your own argument. They have the Comprehensive system, which seems to be your preferred choice.