From the reported story, you draw an equivalence with the Qatada deportation - but his deportation has had nothing to do with the EU, so I am a bit confused....
As to the whole issue of what u-turns mean - They have come to be deemed a sign of weakness, and indeed, the darling of the right, Thatcher herself, famously declared that the lady was not for turning. To resist policy u-turns has long been seen as a kind of strength.
Any reasonable person would wish for a government that wishes to listen - but do major policy u-turns really demonstrate that? Especially when they happen regularly, across departments?
No, what it does illustrate is a government working from a compromise manifesto, with policy commitments hammered out in the space of days rather than months or years. It reflects a desire to push through some radical reforms and cutting corners and rushing the process as they do it. When the logical inconsistencies and the serious inadequacies of such policies are highlighted, that when we get "listening pauses". major re-writes of new health care legislation just weeks before it is due to become law. There are, unfortunately, many many other examples.
Thats not a sign of a listening, caring compassionate government - thats a sign of incoherent policy making, rushed through and lacking proper oversight....