"I spent quite a bit of time in NI in the seventies. I can assure you that not fitting in is a serious problem. but to answer one of the questions raised; believe me, being a (Catholic) pole in a prod area is a much healthier alternative to being a NI Catholic in a prod area. but it's still not good"
Very true.
However, before we get too carried away with ourselves on the other side of the Irish Sea, we had our local Lib Dem Parliamentary candidate in our garden for a chat the other week, and he was saying that a few of the locals in our area had refused to endorse the local council candidate as he was Asian ... Maybe one of the issues in Norn Iron is that people display their bigotry more overtly ...