naomi24 - "andy, //But you still think the victim was wrong to come forward and seek justice?//
In the circumstances, yes, I do. If at the time instead of laughing, she’d shoved him away, or slapped him, he would have known that his joke wasn't shared, and she may well have received an apology there and then, but instead of that regardless of the impact her action would potentially have upon his whole life and upon the lives of his wife and family, twenty years on she jumped onto this current witch-hunting bandwagon. I think it's spiteful."
I can see that we simply assess this incident and the fallout from it in different ways, and must agree to differ.
"If at the time instead of laughing, she’d shoved him away, or slapped him, he would have known that his joke wasn't shared, and she may well have received an apology there and then ..."
You appear to assume that this lady should have reacted in the way that you would - but she obviously was not able to do so. As I have opined before, one woman's 'grope' is another woman's sexual assault - one woman's humour at oafish behaviour is another woman's long-term trauma, I have banged on ad nauseum about this, but as i said, we must agree to differ.
"but instead of that regardless of the impact her action would potentially have upon his whole life and upon the lives of his wife and family, twenty years on she jumped onto this current witch-hunting bandwagon..."
There is nothing to suggest the cavalier attitude that you assume here from the victim. i cannot believe that she undertook her decision to come forward lightly, knowing as we all do that victims are often mocked and vilfied as opportunists and chancers. As to the effect on Mr Travis's family - that is a result of his behaviour, not hers.
"I think it's spiteful."
No - it is seeking justice.
If the lady wanted to be spiteful, she could have sold her story to a Sunday paper, or sued Mr Travis in a civil case for damages - that would be spiteful.
All the victim has done is righted a wrong - which was committed against her, not by her.