What's the problem AOG? You've often said muslims should make more effort to distance themselves from extremism and demonstrate loyalty to their country - isn't this one way of doing just that?
I may be in a minority here, but I find using The Poppy as a fashion accessory offensive in the same way I find using our Union Flag as clothing, bed covers or even doormats to be offensive!
The headscarf is a big bold statement, especially as it is associated with traditional Muslim dress - it acts as a mute defiance of reactionary bigots who burn poppies and similar.
So any Muslim woman who wears one will gain my respect for making a stand.
If they want a start to make amends, this is one way to start integration & try to heal some sort of rift, they have the chance here, will it be taken?
A poppy, and a donation, is enough to show one's opinion and sympathies, but attendance at the local war memorial would be even better and build plenty of bridges.
Funny you should post the DT, when my late Father was Chairman of our local British Legion ,I accompanied him to a ball (some presentation thing) I wore a dress with Poppies on it.