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AOG - ///// As a tee-totaller, I find the behaviour of drunken people to be rather infantile and boorish, but since I don't mix with any, it's not a problem. ///
What a sad person you must be, I bet you don't get invited along to many parties? //
Not for the first time, your assumptions about be are well wide of the mark.
I do get invited to parties, mainly because I am the exact opposite of the 'sad person' that you paint me as being.
I am fully aware that a lot of people like to drink to 'loosen up', and be more relaxed, uninhibited, even more outrageous. I am very fortunate in that I don't need the stimulous of alcohol, I am perfectly able to go along with the atmosphere, and join in anything that my tipsy friends might do, knowing that they would not do it, if they were sober like me. So, I can be as party-happy as anyone, and often am, I am very much a happy person.
// A person's choice to be tee-total is entirely up to them, but when they condemn others for drinking and choosing to call them rather infantile and boorish, and that they are not prepared to mix with them, then that person possess a very serious anti-social problem. //
Once again, you read into my post various things that I have not said.
It is my choice to be tee-total, but I do not condemn anyone for drinking, because that is their choice, and I am all for choice, as my history on this site demonstrates on a daily basis.
I did not say that people who drink are infantile and boorish, I said that I find their behaviour to be infantile and boorish - which is not the same thing. I should qualify that by saying that it is my experience of rowdy strangers, often in pubs, but I don't go in pubs, so it's not an issue.
I also did not say that I am not prepared to mix with people who drink - I do, very frequently as it happens. A lot of my social activity enjoys bands and groups, and most of the audience, and the bands, are refreshed to varying degrees - no problem for me, which is why I did not say as you have said I did.
// I know many who don't drink, but they mix in with the rest of the crowd, while sipping their soft drink, and they not only enjoy themselves but take a delight in seeing others enjoying themselves, even if some are slightly the worse for wear. //
I mix in with the crowd, sipping my soft drink, and as advised, I will go along with anything the crowd are doing - within reason - up to and including dancing on the bar with one gang of friends on a particularly riotous night out.
So, to sum up, I am not the miserable snobby superior killjoy that you appear to have discerned from my post AOG - but I am always happy to correct your incorrect impressions.