> I ask the reasonable ones among those of you who support the legal action to explain in what important - that is to say moral - way the actions and motivations of the two women should be seen as different.
A gay man is on the way to a friend's wedding. He walks into Tesco to buy some flowers (let's leave his cheapskateness out of this). The Tesco shop assistant says, "Oh these are lovely flowers, are they for someone special". The gay mans says "Oh yes, they're for my gay friends who are getting married today". The Tesco assistant says, "Oh I'm sorry, I can't personally sell you these. It's against my religion. I'll have to get somebody else to do it." They call over a colleague, who sells the gay man the flowers. That is an equivalent of the Muslim girl refusing to sell a bottle of wine.
Tesco is in business to sell wine and sell flowers, and it does not discriminate in who it sells to (though its individual workers may).
In the case of the florist's shop (I write "florist's shop" deliberately to differentiate the business from the individual), it did discriminate and that's what was illegal. The same went for the bakery.