So nailit,
Were you willing to take sole and complete responsibility for the resultant child in perpetuity were you? Did they know that? Does the law allow for one parent to be legally taken out of a child's life completely? Doesn't the CSA try at least to make a scent parents pay for children?
To force a woman to go through a medical procedure because of 'I want what you have and my right to have it supersedes your right to control your body' is, well I can't think of the right word just now but it is wrong on all counts.