If there is a confrontation, including the flexing of military muscle by despatching naval vessels to foreign territory (ignore previous "traditional" exploitative presence), and these are subsequently withdrawn to concede the original point, what is that called ? When one country officially puts another on a terrorist list along with Al Qaeda et al, holds it up as some kind of pariah and brings a case against it in an international court and, when awarding the case to the defendant, that court admonishes the pursuer for reprehensible conduct (malevolently using its greater influence to knowingly cause harm), what is that called ?
Of course it hurts to feel part of the side which lost but all the same this would generally be seen as a description of losing, not least when the winner then goes on to do an awful lot better than his/its opponent on pretty much every important front. To learn something from losing (just a grain of humility perhaps ?) would be better than to describe it as some sort of "fake news". Sadly, it is unrealistic to expect some to be honest to themselves.