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rowan...OK.
Well I have defined my understanding of the term NORMAL for my discussions with ummmm in order that we both sing from the same hymn sheet...so, by my definition NORMAL is defined in this context as the action of more than 50% of a male population.
"When it comes to behaviours viewed as addictive I simply state I prefer less of better be it wine, chocolate or lovers"
Maybe, but you are a woman and that may not necessarily be the philosophy of many men. Often was is not looking for a meaningful relationship, but one of sexual relief. The meaningful relationship may be in existence at home but not performing the action of sexual relief that many men require and regard as NORMAL behaviour.
Massage parlours and prostitution are booming industries..why? because there is increasing demand.