I'm not referring to me personally, Naomi. I'm saying that in general you should maybe give more care to why people think the way they do. That you do not says more about you, I suggest, than it does about anybody else. A little more empathy never hurt anybody, and it's interesting, to say the least, that you're so...combative(?) at the suggestion.
In any case, if you are complaining about perceived sniping then maybe you should kindly refrain from it yourself, when -- and it certainly is a when -- you are so quick to do likewise at every opportunity.