Theland - // Oh dear Andy, you perceive a chink in my armour and you are straight in for the kill. //
Armour? In for the kill? This is a debate, not hand to hand combat!!
Get a grip, and lose the 'poor me' martyr position, it doesn't wash with me for a moment.
// So should I not help out my family members who are struggling at the moment, (two of them are), but divide what help I can give between them and Oxfam, Red Cross, Water Aid, etcetcetc? //
First of all, don;t put words in my mouth with your 'So ...' response, that won;t wash either.
I am not talking about you not lookng after your family, I am talking about youm resenting your government looking after staving strangers, with you 'our own' attitude.
You are suposed to be the Christian here, and yet you deny starving people some help which only costs you a portion of your income tax which you have already paid, and you resent it being used there because 'we' should look after 'our own' as you so cynically put it?
// Your post is rather contemptible and one of the best examples of virtue signalling I have seen of late. //
Based on what you have said, you don't actually understand what the word 'contemptable' means, and as for 'virtue signalling' - you are a professional at that.