//did the judge say - "because ay hev not been defrauded - it dont exist"?//
No, the judge did not say that. In fact if you read his post properly, you will see that he said that he had been defrauded but that his CC provider reimbursed him promptly.
There seems to be an irrational fear among some that (a) they will suffer fraud (which is unlikely) and, if they are, that (b) they will have difficulty getting reimbursed by their bank (which is very unlikely). Reasonable assessment of risk does not seem very prevalent at the moment.