Do you think its wrong?

[emma_landray]

I have a friend who has just recently told me that she has been chatting to a man, first by chatroom, and now via e-mail everyday, they've been talking for a while now, she has just informed me that they have exchanged (none rude) photos of each other.

Now he wants her to send him a picture of her breasts, she is unsure whether to or not, it only started as a bit of fun, but now she's worried about her partner finding out, do you think this is wrong and should she stop talking to this man?

I have told her what I think, but I would like to know what eveyone elses opinion is.

[WaldoMcFroog]

This is surely a complete no-brainer? I can't believe anyone needs to ask you, as her friend, what the correct response is!

[B00]

Urgh..........he sounds a gem!

Does her partner know that they were communicating? Tell her to run a mile, can't imagine her partner will be chuffed to know his girlfriends jiggly bits are being paraded round for another guys jollies!

[emma_landray]

Thats exactly what I said, no her partner does not know, I will tell her again what I think, don't know what I would do in her situation though.

Thanks

[B00]

you dont know what you'd do? A bloke you've never met is asking for pics of your boobs and you dunno what you'd do???

[blueeyedlass]

i suppose it depends on what your friend has been saying to this man , if she is leading him on then you cant be totally surprised in what the man is asking of her.does he know she has a partner??

[emma_landray]

Yes he does know she has a partner, she told me that they just email each other all day talking about all sorts of stuff, from what I get from her she is a feels a bit stupid for starting it in the first place, which I agreed with, I have advised her to block his email address and get on with her life.

[maggie01]

Change her e-mail address and give him a wide birth.

[copippin]

Tell her to keep ell away, she is playing with fire and probably brimstone too! Tell her to follow maggies advise and change her email pronto.

[emma_landray]

Thanks maggie, copippin and everyone your advice has been well ingested, although i think she gave him her work email which will prove difficult to change, if she blocks his email address then she won't receive emails from his address anymore, which she says she is going to do.

Thanks again, its up to her now.

[Miss Zippy]

He sounds like such a catch! I can't beleive there are people out there who risk relationships for stuff like this, The grass ain't greener love! It sounds like your friend has got a bit out of her depth. Fair enough, she was probably flattered by the attention at first and we are all human after all, but, come on, she should be running at the opposite direction at his suggestion. How would she feel if her partner was posting pics of his bits to strangers over the net?

[jimmer]

it would also be incredibly stupid of her to send pictures of her breasts from her work e-mail, she could get the sack.

jim

[emma_landray]

Thanks again for all your little pieces of advice, she is starting today 'cold turkey' so to speak. So will have to see how she goes.

I think Miss Zippy was the most right, just started off as flattery, but anyway, I will keep you updated.