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Question About Physical Attraction
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Just a question about physical attraction really
Obviously we all know that personality /connection is important but just for now I’m asking about physical attraction
You know how people get attracted to the opposite sex/get curious/have a desire to see them without clothing..
.. well assuming a woman/man (who is a stranger) remains slim and physically fit throughout their lives (uncommon but let’s assume), at what age would they have to be before your attraction to them or desire/curiosity at seeing them without clothing starts to disappear?
In other words at what age do people start to become less PHYSICALLY attractive (if they were to remain in shape)
Obviously we all know that personality /connection is important but just for now I’m asking about physical attraction
You know how people get attracted to the opposite sex/get curious/have a desire to see them without clothing..
.. well assuming a woman/man (who is a stranger) remains slim and physically fit throughout their lives (uncommon but let’s assume), at what age would they have to be before your attraction to them or desire/curiosity at seeing them without clothing starts to disappear?
In other words at what age do people start to become less PHYSICALLY attractive (if they were to remain in shape)
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You're trying to put life into little boxes, it doesn't work like that.
18:03 Sat 05th Mar 2022
I have been married for many years and neither my wife nor I are in our prime but when I look at her I still see the woman I married, and she is still very attractive and desirable in my eyes.
Strangely, many of her friends of a similar age just look like old women to me.
When I got married in my early 20s I did not find women of pension age attractive and had no desire to see them naked. Now I am old I find many women of a similar age to be very attractive. It's all relative
Strangely, many of her friends of a similar age just look like old women to me.
When I got married in my early 20s I did not find women of pension age attractive and had no desire to see them naked. Now I am old I find many women of a similar age to be very attractive. It's all relative
Thanks for your reply Barry
Can’t help but point out (no offence) that your post seems to contradict itself a bit
On one hand you say that your wife’s friends are not attractive to you/look like old women
In another sentence you say you find many women of a similar age attractive
Unless Im misunderstanding
Thanks for your answer though
Out of interest do you think it’s them being old that limits your attraction to older women or is it that they are (I’m assuming) not in the same physical shape that they were
Can’t help but point out (no offence) that your post seems to contradict itself a bit
On one hand you say that your wife’s friends are not attractive to you/look like old women
In another sentence you say you find many women of a similar age attractive
Unless Im misunderstanding
Thanks for your answer though
Out of interest do you think it’s them being old that limits your attraction to older women or is it that they are (I’m assuming) not in the same physical shape that they were
It's a bit more complicated than that. There will always be someone who finds a person physically attractive no matter what they look like.
You must have heard someone say, I wonder what he sees in her or I wonder what she sees in him?
I don't think you could say a man or a woman become less physically attractive when they reach a certain age.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and I'm sure Barry would agree.
You must have heard someone say, I wonder what he sees in her or I wonder what she sees in him?
I don't think you could say a man or a woman become less physically attractive when they reach a certain age.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and I'm sure Barry would agree.
/////at what age would they have to be before your attraction to them or desire/curiosity at seeing them without clothing starts to disappear?
In other words at what age do people start to become less PHYSICALLY attractive (if they were to remain in shape)/////
As soon as I am bored bored with them sexually, then they automatically become less attractive to me.
Simple concept really.
In other words at what age do people start to become less PHYSICALLY attractive (if they were to remain in shape)/////
As soon as I am bored bored with them sexually, then they automatically become less attractive to me.
Simple concept really.
Raider; looking at some of your earlier posts, you seem to be no longer a 'kid' and are looking for reassurance that you are no longer 'past it'.
Sexual attraction is not simply down to physical appearance. I think that a woman can be extremely sexy if she has certain characteristics such as sexual confidence and personal confidence (ability to talk openly about what she wants and what she likes), empathy (a sense of understanding and being interested in others), or even an apparent vulnerability (which could of course attract the wrong sort).
I think the main thing is to be yourself and act as if you don't give a toss, even if you do.
I'm sure none of the above will be particularly helpful, but I think that being yourself is what you should be; whatever you are, there will be lots of people who find that attractive.
Best wishes. :-)
Sexual attraction is not simply down to physical appearance. I think that a woman can be extremely sexy if she has certain characteristics such as sexual confidence and personal confidence (ability to talk openly about what she wants and what she likes), empathy (a sense of understanding and being interested in others), or even an apparent vulnerability (which could of course attract the wrong sort).
I think the main thing is to be yourself and act as if you don't give a toss, even if you do.
I'm sure none of the above will be particularly helpful, but I think that being yourself is what you should be; whatever you are, there will be lots of people who find that attractive.
Best wishes. :-)
