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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.First, let me say that I have known many very nice people, men and women, who were gay, and I don't have a problem with that. Also, I think the world has benefitted enormously from famous gay people such as Oscar Wilde and Freddie Mercury (and no doubt I'll get stick for saying that).
Nope, I'd agree with both of those, but at the same time, some gay people have had a detrimental effect, just the same as some straight people have. Being gay isn't a defacto positive or negative.
But I do think that the pendulum has swung too far in the direction of homosexuality. It has become almost fashionable to be gay. All soaps have to have gay kissing, all comedies have to be full of gays and, for example, Jonathon Ross regularly hints that he will have to give it a try.
If you were placed in a room and made to watch nothing but gay-related programming for a week, would it affect your sexuality?
It's like some people want to fetishise homosexuality as this all powerful thing that has the power to totally alter society and it doesn't. No one would ever talk about heterosexuality in the terms that are sometimes used about homosexuality. Listening to some people, it's like they think there's a gay SAS regiment posed to mince down the streets of the UK making everyone change their sexual orientation in their wake against their will!
How is it totally unfair, in terms of Civil Partnerships?
It has extended the right to (essentially) get married to more people. Anyone who wants those rights still has to go through a legal process. You're neither better nor worse off than before and some other people have now got the same rights to choose to get married as you have always had, so surely it's more equitable than before?
I can accept that you don't think you should need to go though a legal ceremony to get the rights, but I cannot see how the civil partnerships have changed the position you're in one inch.
Latecomer
Hold onto your horses...because we've had a couple of disagreements in the past...but I actually understand your reasoning here.
I think what you're saying is that civil partnerships should be open to all. However, my argument is this: if civil partnerships offer no extra benefits than the traditional marraige...why not get married. You won't be any worse off, surely? You wouldn't be any better of in a CP.
So if as a straight couple, you can have exactly the same privileges in a marraige that CP'ers have in a CP - why not go for that option?
hang on Latecomer - I've just thought this through to it's logical conclusion...if straight couples could enter CPs, would you be happy with gay couples getting married.
I mean fully married...with the whole reception thing, together with the bad speeches, and fights between estranged family members?
ah, I get it now!! Latecomer, you want to be able to have a civil partnership. Sorry, but that's not how your posts were reading. Ok, I take your point, in theory it should be open to all couples regardless of sex.
I don't think that's the fault of the same sex couples tho, and maybe it highlights how the system has worked against them for so long.
So you're essentially in the same boat as many of them, you have a choice, but not the one you want.
Just to pick up on Latecomers point, Peter Tatchell (gay rights campaigner extraordinaire) was interviewed on Sky News on Monday. He said that for years he's been campaigning for equality for homosexuals. He said that we live in a democracy and all individuals should be equal within that democracy. He also said that while he was pleased at the CP development, he thought it was ridiculous that CPs were not available to opposite sex couples. his words, "two wrongs do not make a right" and that another inequality (heterophobia was the word he used) was now being perpetuated. I have to say, he spoke very well, at length, with some humour and self deprication, and I agreed wholeheartedly with him.
As for the original question - Hippy said it all more eloquently than I could.