2700 destroyed schools, 10s of thousands of dead civilians? Economy struggling?
It's hardly "talking up" Ukraine :-). It's in a far worse state than Russia, thanks to Russia, but Europe in turn is far better off than Russia.
I am not sure what you and others expect of sanctions on Russia?
We threatened Putin with devastating sanctions as a deterrent, because frankly what else could we do. But once it was clear he was hellbent on his disastrous plan, sanctions no longer became a deterrent in the same way. A lot of the "sanctions" are simply the actions of companies who for moral (and lets be honest business) reasons decided they could no longer trade in and with Russia.
They are having a pretty devastating effect on Russia's economu and on its ability to pursue its war, not so much financially as long as it continues to benefit from high gas prices, but in material terms eg inability to replace its weapons of war). On the general public the effect is less dramatic largely because the Kremlin is desparate to shield ordinay people from the consquences, but naturally it does affect people's lives in very real ways.
The thing is tho that alone is not going to make the kremlin stop: that'll be defeat on the battlefield, or chaos or dissent at the top.
In short, if you complaining that Russia hasn't fallen apart economically then that is true, but on the other hand what will they do when the gas revenue from Europe dries up? They cannot simply reroute it east for example.