Road rules7 mins ago
o dear part 2
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Like I said, he is flirting with you and obviously likes you, but is teasing you a bit too. He has already said "don't get jealous" so he knows you like him. Your pal has done you a favour here, because now he knows where he stands. You like him, and the ball is in your court. I would still go out at New Year, glam up, but now let HIM do some of the work. You have stated that you like him, he has stated that MAYBE he likes you (??) so let him do the rest. Take some other pals with you at New Year so you don't have to spend the whole time around him. I would play it a bit, show him what he is missing but be delightful. Don't come across as too needy.
If you get him on his own, be straight with him. Say "look, I like you, you know that. But I don't want to play games. If you are not interested then at least tell me so I can move on." That will make him assess what he is doing and put you out of misery a bit.
That's what I would do anyway!
Im an old lady now lol (all of 26) but Something similar happened to me with the "crush of my life, he was always touching and flirting with me and telling me naughty things but he had a girlfriend. He split up with her and for weeks he continued in this way and then when I thought it was safe to broach the subject and tell him how I felt, I had left it too late him and his g/f got back together and were giving it another go. He made it worse by telling me I was so pretty and kind and funny that he couldnt not be that way about me but he owed something to her and had to try. DO NOT LET SOMEONE ELSE GET THEIR TEETH INTO HIM. I consequently waited till I walked away from him and was physically sick with all the nerves etc....
nb. you cant just blurt stuff like that out accidently, she did it on purpose. Why? Does she fancy him too?...