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My Sons Mother In Law
My sons partners mother (basically mother in law) died yesterday. She was only 51.
They all went on holiday together to Spain 2 month ago while she was relativly well (inc. my grandaughter)
Cant wrap my head around why some people die so young? no one ever said that life was going to be fair.
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(they live in Crewe, I live in Stoke) Dont think its really hit her yet. I know that it was a day or two after losing my mum 3 yrs ago when it really hit me.
I just dont get the injustice of it all. She was only 51 and absolutely lived for her (our) grandaughter.
Dont ever tell me that there is a God.
How i hate that bs...
Nailed - very sorry to hear of your lovely DIL but it has happened to the majority of people I know. My SIL died at 49 her son at 15 and her niece at 3 - that was one family alone.
Another couple lost their their only 2 children they had a boy of 30 and a girl of 32 within 12 weeks. The girl committed suicide and the boy banged his head on the ground and unfortunately it goes on.
Death is very harrowing and nothing but nothing prepared any of us.
So sorry to hear this nailedit.
Am in similar position. My son's youngest stepson died last week. Only 26 and found dead in bed in morning. Nothing showed up from PM yet.
Absolutely disbelieving still. Thinking of him all the time. Such a lovely lad. There is no god or justice in this world. They say only the good die young.
oh the standard religious view is:
God can do nothing do stop it.
Unsatisfactory explanation: it is Gods will and we can never know his will ( or else we wd be God) - and it meshes in with Free will - we cdnt have Free will if God controlled everything - we have free will ergo....
I found the Metaphysical Poets 1680-1700 useful for early death. They wrote on early death. One wondered why God wd allow a fully developed baby to be born dead ( = stillbirth) - clearly he didnt know....
someone asked for a religious view on a Sunday
There's no justice, Nailedit. I posted this last Monday.
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